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The Upside Of A Terminal Illness

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Posted By: Magnante, 3/8/2025 7:46:10 AM

I doubt that anyone forgets the moment when a doctor tells them that they are never going to recover from the illness that brought them in and led to all those diagnostic tests. It’s terminal and it’s only a matter of time before you die. Add in the words “There’s no known cure, and we don’t even know what causes it” and the verdict seems absolute: you’re without hope. Yet my experience over the five and a half years since these words were spoken to me has not felt tragic; to the contrary, I have discovered a surprising upside to the de facto death sentence.

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Reply 1 - Posted by: The Remnants 3/8/2025 8:53:30 AM (No. 1911200)
FTA ". . . the secret to happiness is gratitude."
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Reply 2 - Posted by: bobmadison 3/8/2025 9:19:08 AM (No. 1911212)
What a GREAT read. It's Saturday, so take the time to read this. It will encourage you.
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Reply 3 - Posted by: Flyball Dogs 3/8/2025 9:24:18 AM (No. 1911216)
I miss Mr Lifson’s regular columns. He was always a Must Read. Thank you for posting.
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Reply 4 - Posted by: Strike3 3/8/2025 9:29:36 AM (No. 1911218)
A very enlightening article.
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Reply 5 - Posted by: czechlist 3/8/2025 10:20:13 AM (No. 1911278)
memento mori "Do not complain about growing old. It is a privilege denied to many." Mark Twain
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Reply 6 - Posted by: earlybird 3/8/2025 10:29:38 AM (No. 1911289)
Re #3, Thomas now has a Substack. The link to his first post there is within this article. A wonderful man. A gift to those of us who have come to know him via jhis writings. Now go and subscribe to his Substack...
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Reply 7 - Posted by: Sully 3/8/2025 10:37:59 AM (No. 1911300)
God bless Thomas Lifson. His writing informs and edifies all who seek to understand.
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Reply 8 - Posted by: Delilah 3/8/2025 10:39:00 AM (No. 1911301)
I have no terminal illness except old age. At 92 I feel the same way. I've quit looking at prices of everything I buy. I just get what I want.
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Reply 9 - Posted by: crashnburn 3/8/2025 11:20:53 AM (No. 1911327)
I have mixed feelings about this column. The prospect of imminent death tends to focus your attention, and I'm glad he's able to enjoy life until his time runs out. Also, it's a lot better to run out of life before you run out of money. In late 2021, my wife was diagnosed with CJD (think mad cow disease for humans). She was given a few weeks to a few months to live and yet survived for another 14 months. (I am sure the Corvid vax caused her CJD, or at very least accelerated it). CJD is a wasting disease, so at least all her friends got a chance to say goodby to her, but her passing was a very long goodbye. As far as I'm concerned, she was Heaven sent from God to me, as our meeting was nothing short of miraculous. (Marriage isn't supposed to be a competition, but not just as far as I'm concerned, but my 5 brothers, and sister all say that she was their favorite sister-in-law, and she was Mom's favorite daughter-in-law,) As long as I live, whatever I do, wherever I go, she'll always be the best part of me. At least I had a chance to say goodbye and tell her how much I loved her before she passed, instead of losing her immediately, as in a car crash. Every day, I thank God for bringing her into my life and ask Him to bless all those who were there for her, and me, while she was in hospice, and after she passed.
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Reply 10 - Posted by: JoElla Bee 3/8/2025 11:35:55 AM (No. 1911332)
#9, that is a beautiful tribute to your wife and the love you shared with each other and with your family. It says as much about your heart as it does about hers. God bless you, and thank you for sharing that.
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Reply 11 - Posted by: DVC 3/8/2025 11:41:16 AM (No. 1911337)
I can easily understand Mr. Lifson's essay. I have not been diagnosed with a terminal illness, but at the beginning of August I had a nearly fatal accident which fractured many bones. Three months in bed 24/7 after surgeries for internal bleeding, etc. etc, etc. Then the orthopedic surgeries began to straighten out the widespread structural carnage. Through all this, I met some true angels of RNs, CNAs (Certified Nursing Assistants), CAT scan and Xray techs, and physical and occupational therapists. And some really good doctors. There were just amazing, wonderful and super helpful people. When I had to be transported on a gurney, there were special transport workers who were friendly, cheerful and professional moving a bag of fractures with the least pain possible. I have the handicapped parking hangtag, too, but as I have slowly recovered over the last 7+ months, I rarely use it. Like Mr. Lifson, my wife and I realized about 10 years ago that our decades of saving, investing and living far below our means had set us up so that we no longer had to worry about the 'destitute in old age' issue either. We splurge a little bit now. Like Lifson, we fly business or first class now. I splurged on a Porsche. I still have my 2003 F-150, but can drive a nice Porsche on some days, too. I am very sorry for Mr. Lifson's infirmity, but I have seen some of the same things that he has seen, a great deal of kindness in people, in my case, largely health care providers. And being freed of the fear of running out of money is a nice thing. But, in contrast with Mr. Lifson, I am getting a little bit better each day, my last surgery (I hope) was a couple of weeks ago, and I walk well now, but PT is a three to four times a week event for me, still. I wish Mr. Lifson a long life, and as good a possible health as he can have, and offer thanks for him creating the wonderful American Thinker site.
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Reply 12 - Posted by: JHHolliday 3/8/2025 9:18:23 PM (No. 1911442)
Great essay and God bless Mr. Lifson. I had a friend tell me not long ago, "I have more money than time". It started me thinking. I am somewhat in the same place and will take his advice. Next time I fly, it will be first class and I plan to take my children and spouses on a nice, expensive trip. They are all comfortable and don't need old dad's money or property, so no need to scrimp for them and pass along a lot of assets and cash. My wife will also be well fixed. I also have my eye on a nice sports sedan that I have been interested in. My Camry is a 2002. Still in great shape, but maybe something a little newer and spiffier might make my last years a little more entertaining.
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Reply 13 - Posted by: kono 3/9/2025 1:24:40 AM (No. 1911482)
A lot of my favorite columns posted here have been Lifson's. May God pour his blessing upon Thomas.
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