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Posted By: Judy W., 11/13/2024 9:43:55 AM

I often report on fake "crises" pushed by media. Here's one that may be real: Kids are anxious. In my new video, Lenore Skenazy, founder of the non-profit Let Grow, says it's because today's parents rarely allow their kids to experience the joys of independence. Skenazy once let her 9-year-old ride the New York City subway on his own. For that, the media labeled her "America's worst mom." (Snip) But in real life, what Skenazy allowed isn't so risky. Her son told me, "I know how to get around." Nothing bad happened to him, and he gained the confidence that comes with taking care of yourself.

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When my daughter was 11, I let her join a local group of Revolutionary War re-enactors. She was the only child. I met all the people but I didn't go to many of their events. Once they had an overnight encampment at Fort Frederick and I let her go. I worried my head off about leaving her, but the next morning I found her delighted that she had the experience. She loved the jokes and the stories, the campfire, and the food. and seeing everyone's costumes -- all of it. Everyone was very nice to her, especially one woman who took her under her wing. My daughter took part in several more overnights. She was very interested in colonial times and ended up amazingly knowledgeable in many aspects of life in that era. I am so glad I conquered my worries and let her have such great experiences. I stuck with my gut feeling that these were trustworthy people.

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Reply 1 - Posted by: downnout 11/13/2024 10:15:15 AM (No. 1833520)
At 6 years old my friends and I were riding all over Rolling Hills ( Los Angeles area) with no parental supervision. We were what would now be referred to as “free range children”. Nothing happened to us as long as came home before dinner. Once my father caught us cantering on a macadam road and that resulted in a good paddling. Children need the freedom to make mistakes and to learn from those mistakes.
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Reply 2 - Posted by: DVC 11/13/2024 10:51:27 AM (No. 1833546)
We move out into the country when I was in 2nd grade and we rode our bikes all over, miles and miles along the Chesapeake Bay back inlets like Lynnhaven Bay. Crabbing and oyster gathering produced many meals and we just had a lot of fun exploring. The headline is correct.
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Reply 3 - Posted by: chumley 11/13/2024 10:51:47 AM (No. 1833547)
I ran around a lot as a kid. Got in some minor trouble and had a ton of adventures. I beat death countless times on my bike. I ran into only one pervert, when I was 13, delivering the Sunday paper at 4am. Some naked gay guy in a car who wanted me to get in. I started carrying a knife after that. Now he would be celebrated and revered. I would be demonized for not getting in. Parents are understandably cautious.
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Reply 4 - Posted by: Daisymay 11/13/2024 11:09:25 AM (No. 1833558)
Times have changed! No way would I allow my Kids to run "Wild" as they did back in the 60's. Now we have Adult women Kidnapped while on a Running Trail, in Broad Daylight. Imagine what that kind of guy could do with young kids!
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Reply 5 - Posted by: lynngirl122 11/13/2024 11:57:30 AM (No. 1833594)
Too many psychos out there no flipping way.
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Reply 6 - Posted by: caljeepgirl 11/13/2024 12:01:45 PM (No. 1833599)
I'm with #4. I had a wonderful 'wild' growing-up time during the 50's, but there's definitely a huge difference between a group of Revolutionary War re-enacters and the NY subway!! Most unfortunately, "stranger danger" is the hard reality these days....too many youngsters simply plucked from neighborhood sidewalks! Mental cases, unvetted illegals, declining moral compass and scarcity of common sense among the population at large.
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Reply 7 - Posted by: kono 11/13/2024 12:07:09 PM (No. 1833601)
The world has always been a dangerous place. The "good old days" had their own child abductions and other dangers that we get more often today (or at least much more publicity). One of my aunts (midwest farming town) came home from high school one day in the 1940s to find her whole family had been murdered by burglars. It's not as if human nature suddenly discovered the inclination to do harm to others. The Left seems to think the freedom kids need is freedom from responsibility, and it should last throughout their lives. Left-Right perspectives on God, man, and life seem similar, but kind of inverses of each other.
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Reply 8 - Posted by: texaspast 11/13/2024 12:29:21 PM (No. 1833617)
We lived pretty much out in the country. When I was 9 years old I snuck away from the house on the (too big) bicycle I had received for Christmas - which happened to be that very day. I tried to cross the highway at the bottom of our hill (which I had crossed many times on foot and on my old smaller bike). I was so engrossed in trying to control that big bike that I didn't look for traffic and was hit by a car going about 65 mph. I was lucky, being thrown into a muddy bog, which saved my life. I just had a broken leg where the car had hit my leg. A few years later, my parents let me ride down that same highway to a friends house about 5 miles away. I later asked my mother (a rather strict elementary school teacher) why she would have let me do that. She said 'we figured you had learned your lesson about looking out for traffic.' She was definitely right. That bike and I went all over the place, and later when I was 11 to 14, when we lived in a medium size city, we went all over that city! Kids need to have the freedom to grow up! We have so many wimps in college - and the work force - that don't know how to deal with a little stress or disappointment or high expectations, things they should have learned as kids, but they were protected from all such by overly-protective parents. In my opinion, anyway.
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