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A Therapist's Notes on the Decline of Marriage

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Posted By: Magnante, 2/11/2023 9:38:42 AM

Many years ago, during the ancient times of the early part of this century, I provided individual psychotherapy to several adolescents. Although some stood out, one in particular, a thirteen-year-old, will remain in my mind forever. Every week, dressed in her school uniform, she discussed the issues of family life. Her parents lived apart. What made this memorable was her lamenting the fact that her parents never married, sharing with me her humiliation when other children discussed their parents' anniversaries or honeymoons. The sanctity of marriage has been losing its luster since the late 1960s

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Reply 1 - Posted by: Venturer 2/11/2023 9:46:48 AM (No. 1400356)
Many thanks to the LGBTQ community which has helped destroy the definition of marriage. Marriage is between a man and a woman. The LGBTQ community is not wholly at fault ,there are many reasons, but they certainly are a factor.
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Reply 2 - Posted by: padiva 2/11/2023 10:18:35 AM (No. 1400382)
Marriage (between a man and a woman) was designed by Gd. Denying the sovereignty of Gd (in your own mind) does not change the fact that Gd is sovereign.
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Reply 3 - Posted by: LC Chihuahua 2/11/2023 10:38:41 AM (No. 1400397)
What do single parent households, unmarried couples, gay households, and multi partner households all have in common? They are less likely to work than the traditional married one-man one-woman household, and even they can be problematic. Sadly, we torture ourselves. Some event happens in our past, and it haunts us for the rest of our lives with devastating consequences. Most of the time it goes back to a dysfunctional household. I remember a preacher giving a sermon about a traumatized individual and learning that the person that caused it is deceased, and long gone. That person is 'haunted' by a ghost. They were never able to move on. How many people have one problem on top of another, create more problems (real and imagined) for themselves, and aren't even aware of the existence of a root problem long buried in their past? Obviously, not buried well enough because it still affects them.
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Reply 4 - Posted by: columba 2/11/2023 10:49:13 AM (No. 1400408)
Each couple can make a marriage. The man and woman can contact a priest, minister, judge etc and vow to each other in God's hearing. It works and has worked for several thousand years.
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Reply 5 - Posted by: Cindiana 2/11/2023 11:31:24 AM (No. 1400437)
I'm sure many here remember earlier on when the gays made the argument that all they wanted was the legal right to make medical and financial decisions with their partners that carried the same legal protections that married couples have. In a time when our society was open to understanding and compassion in hearing their wishes/demands, it seemed like a fair and logical move....thus "civil unions" were the solution. What seemed like a way of protecting traditional marriage while letting gays live their lives as recognized couples quieted the waters. For some gays, this worked to their satisfaction. But the loudest among them were not appeased or content. Their agenda was much bigger, as they next demanded the right to legally marry. And on it goes...
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Reply 6 - Posted by: zephyrgirl 2/11/2023 11:44:08 AM (No. 1400450)
Marriage has financial implications for everyone. Many Federal government policies discourage marriage. The marriage tax hits dual-income couples hard. Unmarried couples with children can lose the earned income tax credit if they marry. Welfare policies favor single parents over married.
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Reply 7 - Posted by: chumley 2/11/2023 1:33:17 PM (No. 1400495)
I'm thinking it started with the libbies in the early 70's. They didn't need men and convinced others that they didn't either. So even when they did, they insisted they didn't. Children suffered. Society suffered, and so did the single moms who were betrayed by those libbies. Now it is such a part of our culture it may never turn back to normal. And because of that we all lose, even when we did things right.
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Reply 8 - Posted by: Mushroom 2/11/2023 1:43:32 PM (No. 1400498)
Echoing #6. My spouse has nearly bankrupted me with medical bills. We don't qualify for any assistance etc... She rarely worked outside the home and after 32 yrs she only has social security. In 30more days our divorce will be final. It isn't God that is the problem, it is the Government sticking it's taxing nose where it doesn't belong.
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