Where the Hell Are the Men?
PJ Media,
by
Lincoln Brown
Original Article
Posted By: Beardo,
1/23/2022 2:37:27 AM
After a long and storied career, I would like to say that I have amassed a fortune. But not yet. However, I have faced 300-foot flame lengths as a firefighter, been asked to remove suspected anthrax from a county jail wearing nothing but a respirator mask and some rubber gloves, and been kicked out of a café in Paris because I realized I didn’t have enough money to pay for my beer (and I mean literally kicked in the ass into the gutter on the Champs-Elysées).
Reply 1 - Posted by:
pixelero 1/23/2022 4:44:56 AM (No. 1047871)
Entertaining and rings true.
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Reply 2 - Posted by:
MissGrits 1/23/2022 4:54:16 AM (No. 1047873)
I love manly men. That said, I can’t subscribe to some of this because testosterone can drive men to do some pretty stupid stuff at times. But if I see one more man in a pair of tight, too short suit pants with an equally too short, one button matching coat that strains at every seam and the tie hanging out the bottom I think I’ll scream!
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Reply 3 - Posted by:
chumley 1/23/2022 5:08:15 AM (No. 1047875)
Where we have to be careful is to not go back to the definition of masculinity that my father's generation used in the 1940's and 50's. I was raised under the cloud of the Earl Hollimans, the Jack Klugmans and Jackie Gleasons (honeymooners) who were nothing more than loud mouthed blowhards looking for a fight over anything or nothing. They didnt win arguments by being right, they did it by being louder and more threatening than the other guy. And they loved to fight.
No thanks. It humiliated me growing up and I'd hate to see it back.
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Reply 4 - Posted by:
Highlander 1/23/2022 5:19:07 AM (No. 1047878)
No masculine man or boy wears a man-bun.
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When I was a teenager in the mid 70s the 18 year old young men were preparing to support a family.
When my daughters were teenagers in the mid 90s the 18 year old young men were playing video games and buying things to add on to their truck. The young women were preparing to support themselves.
I truly think the generous parents of the 90s messed up. They paid for strangers to mow their lawn and clean their houses, and let their kids become self-absorbed.
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Reply 6 - Posted by:
chumley 1/23/2022 6:25:21 AM (No. 1047899)
#5's comment reminds me of conversations I've had with old friends from high school. Back then, when we left home we expected it to be for good. We did the best we could to prepare for the real world and then we jumped in. We might have married, or gone to college, or started a career in the rat race, or even joined the military. One thing we never expected to do was move back in with the parents. It would have been an admission of defeat at life and we would have hung our heads in shame, while doing everything humanly possible to get back out there.
Now look. If they ever move out, they move back in between marriages/kids/jobs. And they act as if its perfectly normal.
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Reply 7 - Posted by:
49 Ford 1/23/2022 6:45:10 AM (No. 1047917)
# 3, I believe you got Ralph Kramden all wrong.
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Reply 8 - Posted by:
F15 Gork 1/23/2022 7:11:04 AM (No. 1047928)
Growing up in my America we were raised in two-parent families, attended church every Sunday and were educated in schools that actually taught stuff you needed to know to function. We have devolved into wild tribes of idiots who are now into smash and grab and robbing trains. Those men left among us who stand up and say “Stop this madness” are quickly ground to dust under the hob nailed boot of cancel culture.
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Reply 9 - Posted by:
Bur Oak 1/23/2022 7:48:04 AM (No. 1047940)
It's also sad what's happening to children. They seldom play outside, don't walk even a block to catch a school bus, are kept masked, have the playgrounds shut, and have frequent school lockouts. On top of that the physical activity they are involved in is run by adults, not the children.
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Reply 10 - Posted by:
skacmar 1/23/2022 8:04:27 AM (No. 1047955)
Men today have been reduced to bumbling charictures to be ridiculed (especially white men). TV portrays men a idiots who can only be saved by their wise wife or female friend. And don't forget the hipsters and gay guys who are the new role models of understanding and love. They are always the ones shown staying home unemployed taking care of the kids either as the understanding father or clueless fool. Men who are "men" are always portrayed bullies or mean guys who need to be taught understanding by the more woke people.
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Reply 11 - Posted by:
udanja99 1/23/2022 8:05:05 AM (No. 1047956)
The day I received my college degree, my father said to me, and I quote, “I got you this far. Don’t come home.” (Even though it was my grandfather who had paid for my education)
I would not have dared even ask to move back into his home. I graduated during a recession and jobs in my field of graphic design were scarce. I worked as a waitress and bartender for a year before finally finding the job for which I had prepared for four years.
#5, from some of what I’ve seen, those 18 year olds are now in their late 30’s and STILL playing video games.
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Reply 12 - Posted by:
Laotzu 1/23/2022 8:33:47 AM (No. 1047982)
Hollywood softened up Western Civilization with the propagandistic Al Bundy, Homer Simpson, and Peter Griffin. Then it served up the death blow on manhood with a generation of men dressed in PeeWee Herman clothing who don't know how to open their garage door in a power outage.
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Reply 13 - Posted by:
Namma 1/23/2022 8:36:23 AM (No. 1047985)
I grew up at a time when men were men. They were the protectors. They worked hard to support their families. They went to war to defend family country and God. The women supported and held down the fort till their return. And the women held on when their man did not return. Hoppy, with the Lone Ranger and Tonto showed us that breaking the law had consequences.
What started breaking the family up was mother’s having to work. Changed the family way of life. All done in purpose. Feminists made fun of “stay at home Moms”. Men protected, women nourished was made fun of. The roles were switched. Now you see two moms, no dad in the “family. Or two dads and no mother. This is NOT normal.
Now the transgender. No matter how much it’s pushed on us, it’s against the laws of God and nature.
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Reply 14 - Posted by:
sunshinehorses 1/23/2022 9:30:22 AM (No. 1048050)
This may be why once of the most popular genres in books for women is alpha males that love their women. Can't find them in real life, so they read about them.
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Reply 15 - Posted by:
fhancock 1/23/2022 10:02:56 AM (No. 1048092)
Where are the GENTLEMEN? That is the proper question. A man who can go to war, fight a fire, stand solid in the face of terrible odds...and at the same time be a good father and husband. They are out there but they get ZERO face time with a dystopian and leftist media. Think Jimmy Stewart, John Wayne, and Ronald Reagan.
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Reply 16 - Posted by:
czechlist 1/23/2022 10:03:55 AM (No. 1048095)
feminism
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Reply 17 - Posted by:
anniebc 1/23/2022 10:08:45 AM (No. 1048105)
Make men great again!
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Reply 18 - Posted by:
TexaTucky 1/23/2022 10:25:46 AM (No. 1048133)
They left town when our depraved society rendered them obsolete and the women started killing their babies.
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Reply 19 - Posted by:
Italiano 1/23/2022 10:33:49 AM (No. 1048141)
All true, but he should really get over himself. Don't brag about it, just do it.
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Well I cannot say that I blame them for keeping their heads down right now. Why on earth would men willingly make themselves a target for the foulness of the Left at this current juncture of history? The real men who maintain this nation are out there, they just don't feel the need to announce themselves like liberal soybois do.
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Reply 21 - Posted by:
MDConservative 1/23/2022 10:51:27 AM (No. 1048171)
The other day I sat down with three twenty-something women for a late dinner. One is my son's fiance. The conversation between the women was eye-opening and informative. They don't want to be mothers. They don't want to be the beta to some guy's alpha. One is "in love" with some guy, and they are discussing marriage, but she wants it all on her terms. She wants a career. She says delaying possible children is no problem because today even women in their 50s get pregnant. Really? I asked her whether she considered that when she became eligible for Medicare her child would be moving into high school. Her answer: "We can hire someone to help out." Okay...that's the future. And "men" are checking out. Wait for the self-drive trucks and SUVs...
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Reply 22 - Posted by:
Kate318 1/23/2022 12:01:29 PM (No. 1048244)
While I wholeheartedly agree with the point that we need more masculinity in our men and our culture—and femininity in our women, for that matter—this article was weird. This guy came off as someone I really didn’t want to know.
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Reply 23 - Posted by:
DVC 1/23/2022 12:46:36 PM (No. 1048283)
An excellent piece. Sounds like a really interesting guy.
Lots of wimps out there today. I've done manly stuff my whole life, and even after 70, I'm still doing most of it. I paid for a roof reshingle job a couple of years ago, mostly because it was caused by huge hail and the insurance paid for it. Maybe past 70 is too old to be roofing, and I guess I have enough money now to afford to hire it done, but I have shingled or put tin on about 6 roofs over the years, maybe more, I've kinda lost count. Helped build two or three homes, built one myself with some friends and my wonderful, skilled wife, cut a lot of trees, split a lot of wood, done diving in caves, reefs all over Florida. Canoed miles and miles of rivers, flown my own aircraft from coast to coast several times, including one that I made myself - not from a kit, just plans. Dug ditches and run tractors for pay. Pumped gas and cleaned windshields. Built homes and furniture. Fixed people's plumbing for free when they needed help with frozen pipes in winter in rural areas. Worked as a welder. I make and fix things. I always will. I am a man.
The author is right. I have never been a wildfire firefighter like he has, but I was on the volunteer fire department and have helped put out a car fire, and a couple of smallish brush fires. Climbed mountains (up cliffs, ropes and all that), sailed the Caribbean (with sails), hunted across this country for deer and elk, and in Africa, too.
None of this was ever done to impress someone else. It was done because I found it interesting, so did my wife and I thought it was challenging and well, manly. I like testing myself.
Life is short. Take big bites, enjoy it, DO things. Too soon you won't be able to.
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Reply 24 - Posted by:
cor-vet 1/23/2022 1:48:56 PM (No. 1048334)
During a conversation over liquid refreshments, while on my 1960's class trip to the Far East, we were talking about why we had entered the military. One of the guys said simply, my dad broke my plate. It seems that when his father thought it was time to fend for yourself, at supper, he reached over took your plate and broke it. You either earned or starved. I'll always remember that. I joined because my family was putting my older sister thru college, and couldn't afford to help me, even tho I worked. And poster #4, I'd add, besides the man-bun, no real man wears shoulder length hair or an earring!
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Reply 25 - Posted by:
Aubreyesque 1/23/2022 3:29:03 PM (No. 1048409)
There is a website that I, as a woman, like to go to just because I want to check out what the "competition" is doing *wink* - it is called The Art of Manliness. IINM (If Im Not Mistaken), the three P's spell out real manliness: Procreation, Provision, Protection. I think that creates quite a wide tent for how a man can define himself ie understanding what each of those words mean.
I wish there was a site like that for women. Im sick of being defined by Crusty Old Haggard 60s Broads and their 4th/5th/6th degeneration of confused and self-centered female whelps.
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Reply 26 - Posted by:
TXknitter 1/23/2022 3:53:00 PM (No. 1048429)
Well, a lot of them were raised by single mothers (many by choice) who (along with popular media) ignorantly and brazenly declared fathers were not needed!!!
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TXknitter 1/23/2022 3:55:34 PM (No. 1048431)
..and #15 is right. Good WOMEN have been very remiss at failing to stand up for our ridiculed and maligned men and boys. We could use an astute article on that as well.
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Reply 28 - Posted by:
Faithfully 1/23/2022 7:03:22 PM (No. 1048593)
After two generations of affirmative action hiring in government and the private sector, how dare anyone ask: "Where are the men?"
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